God’s Plan, Desire and Pain
Genesis 2:20-24 They will become ________ flesh.
So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds of the air and
all
the beasts of the field. But for Adam no suitable helper was found. So
the
LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was
sleeping,
he took one of the man's ribs and closed up the place with flesh. Then
the
LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he
brought
her to the man. The man said, "This is now bone of my bones and
flesh
of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman, ' for she was taken out of
man."
For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to
his
wife, and they will become one flesh.
Genesis 6:6 It ___________ God that he had created man and
___________________________________.
The LORD was grieved that he had made man on the earth, and his heart
was
filled with pain.
Ephesians 5:21-33 They will become ________ flesh.
_______ is head of the home as _________ is the head of the church.
Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to
your
husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as
Christ
is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as
the
church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands
in
everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church
and
gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing
with
water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant
church,
without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.
In
this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies.
He
who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own
body,
but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church-- for we
are
members of his body. "For this reason a man will leave his father and
mother
and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."
This
is a profound mystery--but I am talking about Christ and the church.
However,
each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the
wife
must respect her husband.
God Detests the Action of Man
Genesis 19:5-7 To whose home were the men (angels) visiting?
________
Why is our assembly important?
__________________________________________________
They called to Lot, "Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring
them
out to us so that we can have sex with them." Lot went outside to
meet
them and shut the door behind him and said, "No, my friends. Don't do
this
wicked thing.
Leviticus 18:22 Homosexuality is ___________________
Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable.
Leviticus 20:13 A man committing homosexual acts are to be
_______ to ___________.
If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have
done
what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on
their
own heads.
Deuteronomy 23:17 Neither __________ not ____________ is to
become a shrine prostitute.
No Israelite man or woman is to become a shrine prostitute.
1 Kings 14:24 The actions were the same as the detestable
__________ of __________ that the Lord had driven out.
There were even male shrine prostitutes in the land; the people engaged
in
all the detestable practices of the nations the LORD had driven out
before
the Israelites.
Matthew 15:19 Where does the evil in man begin?
_______________________________
For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual
immorality, theft, false testimony, slander.
Mark 7:21-23 Why did God give them over to their sinful ways?
_______________________
For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual
immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness,
envy, slander, arrogance
and folly. All these evils come from inside and make a man 'unclean.
Romans 1:24-27 They did not glorify him as God but turned to
__________.
Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to
sexual
impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. They
exchanged
the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things
rather
than the Creator--who is forever praised. Amen. Because of this,
God
gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural
relations
for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned
natural
relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men
committed
indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due
penalty
for their perversion.
Romans 6:12-14 Do not let sin reign in
your_____________ __________.
Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its
evil
desires. Do not offer the parts of your body to sin, as instruments of
wickedness,
but rather offer yourselves to God, as those who have been brought from
death
to life; and offer the parts of your body to him as instruments of
righteousness.
For sin shall not be your master, because you are not under law, but
under
grace.
Romans 13:13 We are to act decently both _____ and
___________.
Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in orgies and
drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension
and jealousy.
I Corinthians 5:9-12 We are not to even eat with brethren
who is
_________ _________ or ___________ an ____________ or a
____________, a _______________, or a __________________.
I have written you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral
people--
not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the
greedy
and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this
world.
But now I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who
calls
himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a
slanderer,
a drunkard or a swindler. With such a man do not even eat. What
business
is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge
those
inside?
1 Corinthians 6:9 No one that is __________ will enter the
____________ of ___________.
Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do
not
be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers
nor
male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders
2 Corinthians 12:21 Paul was ____________ over the conduct of
the
Corinthians.
I am afraid that when I come again my God will humble me before you,
and
I will be grieved over many who have sinned earlier and have not
repented of the impurity, sexual sin and debauchery in which they have
indulged.
Galatians 5:19 The acts of ____________ ____________ are
____________.
The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity
and
debauchery;
Colossians 3:5-6 Why does Paul say the wrath of God
coming?_________________________
Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature:
sexual immorality,
impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of
these,
the wrath of God is coming.
1 Timothy 1:9-10 Law is not made for the
_____________________
We also know that law is made not for the righteous but for lawbreakers
and
rebels, the ungodly and sinful, the unholy and irreligious; for those
who
kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers, for adulterers and
perverts, for slave traders and liars and perjurers--and for whatever
else is contrary to the sound doctrine
2 Peter 2:6-8 How does this point to the need we have to
assemble with the saints on a regular basis.
_______________________________________________________________________
If He condemned the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah by burning them to
ashes,
and made them an example of what is going to happen to the ungodly; and
if
He rescued Lot, a righteous man, who was distressed by the filthy lives
of
lawless men (for that righteous man, living among them day after
day,
was tormented in his righteous soul by the lawless deeds he saw and
heard)
Jude 1:7 What can we, as Christians, learn from the example
of Sodom
and Gomorrha?
________________________________________________________________________
In a similar way, Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding towns gave
themselves
up to sexual immorality and perversion. They serve as an example of
those
who will suffer the punishment of eternal fire.
Resources for Considerations
Survey Results: Is it possible for a homosexual to stop being
homosexual?
Yes, since homosexuality is just a choice 33.05% (1325)
Yes, with counseling and/or God's help 25.82% (1035)
Yes, ex-homosexuals are living proof 15.19% (609)
Yes 11.45% (459)
Yes, just as some heterosexuals turn to homosexuality
7.63%
(306)
No 1.67% (67)
Other 1.62% (65)
No, once 'gay,' always 'gay' 1.50% (60)
No, 'ex-homosexuals' are just scamming public 1.37%
(55)
No, it goes against nature to even try 0.70%
(28)
TOTAL VOTES: 4009
Source: http://www.blessedcause.org/Antichrist%20ID/
Homosexual%20recovery.htm (09-03-04)
Web Sites for your consideration
Evil Companionship Corrupts
Good Morals. 1Cor.
15:33
American Family Association, http://www.afa.net/default.asp
Are Homosexuals Born That Way? December 1992, http://www.bible-infonet.org/ff/editorials/homosexual/107_12_02.htm
Christ is the Answer for the Problem of Homosexuality, http://www.forrestpark.org/local/outreach/issue_1.htm#homosexuality
Christians No Longer Gay, Living For God, http://www.TheBible.net/cnlglfg/ Powerful articles for our times!!
Coming Out of the Closet, http://www.swsbs.edu/pages/writings/Garner/homosexuality.html
Family Values, November 1992, http://www.bible-infonet.org/ff/editorials/homosexual/107_11_02.htm
Frequently Asked Questions, http://www.anotherway.com/menus/faq.html
From Dr. Dobson on Family.org, http://www.family.org/docstudy/solid/a0004936.html
Homosexual Gay Same Sex Marriage, http://www.blessedcause.org/gay/Same%20Sex%20Marriage%20Index.htm
Homosexuality: A Christian Prespective, http://www.bible.ca/eo/hom.htm
Homosexuals, October 1992, http://www.bible-infonet.org/ff/editorials/homosexual/107_10_02.htm
Gay Gene Myth, http://www.trueorigin.org/gaygene01.asp
Homosexuality, http://www.tftw2.org/Articles/homosexuality.htm
Contact: wsh(at)mindspring.com
It's Not HOMOPHOBIA! http://www.grinnellcoc.com/id159.htm
No Gay Marriage, http://www.nogaymarriage.com
On the Road to Sodom and Gomorrah! http://bot.lemmonsaid.net/bot00-11.pdf
OneMillionDads.com, http://www.onemilliondads.com/
OneMillionMoms.com, http://www.onemillionmoms.com/
Overcome Pornography Addication & Sex Addiction, http://www.pureonline.com/?bid=10&aid=CD2&opt=
Overcomers Outreach, http://www.overcomersoutreach.org/
People can Change, http://www.peoplecanchange.com/
Preaching to homosexuals, http://biblesays.faithsite.com/content.asp?CID=8937
Questions About Homosexuality, http://www.bible-infonet.org/bin/feature_articles/living/homosexuality.htm
Radio Debate on Homosexuality, http://www.geocities.com/Athens/5767/debates/homosexual.html
StopLiberalJudges.com, http://www.stopliberaljudges.com/
For these dead sites, Check in the Internet Archive at Berkeley
at http://www.archive.org/index.php
AgapePress.org, http://www.agapepress.org/
Exodus International – Freedom from Homosexuality through the Power
of Jesus, http://www.exodus-international.org/
Homosexuality, the Bane of America,
http://southavencoc.org/Articles/HOMOSEXUALITY3.htm.Contact:
editor(at)southhavencoc.org
Homosexuals Anonymous Fellowship Services, http://members.aol.com/hawebpage/
I Do Exist! -- New Video Focuses on Ex-Homosexuals' Stories, http://headlines.agapepress.org/users/apwebexpress/express6.asp
Information for those Struggling with Homosexuality
Institute for Sexual Integrity, http://www.sexualintegrity.org/
What Happened to the Gay City Sodom? http://www.oldpaths.com/RD/gaycity.html
What is the Real Cause of the Aids Epidemic, http://www.oldpaths.com/RD/aids.html
Social Rationality for Homosexuality
Homosexuality is an immutable, genetically-based, sexual
orientation God made me this way Monogamous, homosexual marriages are
identical to monogamous,
traditional marriages God gave me a freedom of choice 10% of the
population
is homosexual (less than 3%) I was born this way.
“We live in a society in which we are asked not only to accept
homosexuality as "normal", but in which liberals want it to be illegal
to speak out against it. [This has been the case in many
societies since the beginning of humanity. Why did it cause
God to grieve that he had created man? (Gen 6:6)]
Those who quote the Bible and take a scriptural
stand against homosexuality are said to be "hateful" and
"bigotted". They call us "homophobes", which is a terrible
misnomer. A phobia is a fear.
We are not afraid of homosexuals--other than the damage they do to our
society--but
abhor their ungodly behavior. Under the Law of Moses, death was the
penalty
for homosexuality.” By Bernie Parsons - Nov 29, 2000
What Christians said in the 1st to 4th Centuries
Source: http://www.bible.ca/H-homosexuality.htm
(Posted11-13-03)
181 AD Theophilus of Antioch "Give studious attention to the prophetic
writings
[the Bible] and they will lead you on a clearer path to escape the
eternal
punishments and to obtain the eternal good things of God.. [God] will
examine
everything and will judge justly, granting recompense to each according
to
merit. To those who seek immortality by the patient exercise of good
works,
he will give everlasting life, joy, peace, rest, and all good things..
For
the unbelievers and for the contemptuous, and for those who do not
submit
to the truth but assent to iniquity, when they have been involved in
adulteries,
and fornications, and homosexualities, and avarice, and in lawless
idolatries,
there will be wrath and indignation, tribulation and anguish; and in
the
end, such men as these will be detained in everlasting fire" (To
Autolycus
1:14).
220AD Tertullian "[A]ll other frenzies of the lusts which exceed the
laws
of nature, and are impious toward both [human] bodies and the sexes, we
banish,
not only from the threshold but also from all shelter of the Church,
for
they are not sins so much as monstrosities" (Modesty 4).
250 AD Novatian "[God forbid the Jews to eat certain foods for symbolic
reasons:]
For that in fishes the roughness of scales is regarded as constituting
their
cleanness; rough, and rugged, and unpolished, and substantial, and
grave
manners are approved in men; while those that are without scales are
unclean,
because trifling, and fickle, and faithless, and effeminate manners are
disapproved.
Moreover, what does the Law mean when it . . . forbids the swine to be
taken
for food? It assuredly reproves a life filthy and dirty, and delighting
in
the garbage of vice . . . Or when it forbids the hare? It rebukes men
deformed
into women" (The Jewish Foods 3).
253 AD Cyprian of Carthage "[T]urn your looks to the abominations, not
less
to be deplored, of another kind of spectacle . . . Men are emasculated,
and
all the pride and vigor of their sex is effeminated in the disgrace of
their
enervated body; and he is more pleasing there who has most completely
broken
down the man into the woman. He grows into praise by virtue of his
crime;
and the more he is degraded, the more skillful he is considered to be.
Such
a one is looked upon--oh shame!--and looked upon with pleasure. . . .
nor
is there wanting authority for the enticing abomination . . . that
Jupiter
of theirs [is] not more supreme in dominion than in vice, inflamed with
earthly
love in the midst of his own thunders . . . now breaking forth by the
help
of birds to violate the purity of boys. And now put the question: Can
he
who looks upon such things be healthy-minded or modest? Men imitate the
gods
whom they adore, and to such miserable beings their crimes become their
religion"
(Letters 1:8).
253 AD Cyprian of Carthage "Oh, if placed on that lofty watch-tower,
you
could gaze into the secret places--if you could open the closed doors
of
sleeping chambers and recall their dark recesses to the perception of
sight--you
would behold things done by immodest persons which no chaste eye could
look
upon; you would see what even to see is a crime; you would see what
people
embruted with the madness of vice deny that they have done, and yet
hasten
to do--men with frenzied lusts rushing upon men, doing things which
afford
no gratification even to those who do them" (Letters 1:9).
319 AD Eusebius of Caesarea "[H]aving forbidden all unlawful marriage,
and
all unseemly practice, and the union of women with women and men with
men,
he [God] adds: `Do not defile yourselves with any of these things; for
in
all these things the nations were defiled, which I will drive out
before
you. And the land was polluted, and I have recompensed [their] iniquity
upon
it, and the land is grieved with them that dwell upon it' [Lev.
18:24-25]" (Proof of the Gospel 4:10).
367 AD Basil the Great "He who is guilty of unseemliness with males
will
be under discipline for the same time as adulterers" (Letters 217:62).
373 AD Basil the Great "If you [O, monk] are young in either body or
mind,
shun the companionship of other young men and avoid them as you would a
flame.
For through them the enemy has kindled the desires of many and then
handed
them over to eternal fire, hurling them into the vile pit of the five
cities
under the pretense of spiritual love.. At meals take a seat far from
other
young men. In lying down to sleep let not their clothes be near yours,
but
rather have an old man between you. When a young man converses with
you,
or sings psalms facing you, answer him with eyes cast down, lest
perhaps
by gazing at his face you receive a seed of desire sown by the enemy
and
reap sheaves of corruption and ruin. Whether in the house or in a place
where
there is no one to see your actions, be not found in his company under
the
pretense either of studying the divine oracles or of any other business
whatsoever,
however necessary" (The Renunciation of the World).
390 AD John Chrysostom "[The pagans] were addicted to the love of boys,
and
one of their wise men made a law that pederasty . . . should not be
allowed
to slaves, as if it was an honorable thing; and they had houses for
this
purpose, in which it was openly practiced. And if all that was done
among
them was related, it would be seen that they openly outraged nature,
and
there was none to restrain them. . . . As for their passion for boys,
whom
they called their 'paedica,' it is not fit to be named" (Homilies on
Titus
5).
391 AD John Chrysostom "[Certain men in church] come in gazing about at
the
beauty of women; others curious about the blooming youth of boys. After
this,
do you not marvel that [lightning] bolts are not launched [from
heaven],
and all these things are not plucked up from their foundations? For
worthy
both of thunderbolts and hell are the things that are done; but God,
who
is long-suffering, and of great mercy, forbears awhile his wrath,
calling
you to repentance and amendment" (Homilies on Matthew 3:3).
391 AD John Chrysostom "All of these affections [in Rom. 1:26-27] . . .
were
vile, but chiefly the mad lust after males; for the soul is more the
sufferer
in sins, and more dishonored than the body in diseases" … "[The men]
have
done an insult to nature itself. And a yet more disgraceful thing than
these
is it, when even the women seek after these intercourses, who ought to
have
more shame than men" … "And sundry other books of the philosophers one
may
see full of this disease. But we do not therefore say that the thing
was
made lawful, but that they who received this law were pitiable, and
objects
for many tears. For these are treated in the same way as women that
play
the whore. Or rather their plight is more miserable. For in the case of
the
one the intercourse, even if lawless, is yet according to nature; but
this
is contrary both to law and nature. For even if there were no hell, and
no
punishment had been threatened, this would be worse than any
punishment"
(Homilies on Romans 4).
400AD Augustine "[T]hose shameful acts against nature, such as were
committed
in Sodom, ought everywhere and always to be detested and punished. If
all
nations were to do such things, they would be held guilty of the same
crime
by the law of God, which has not made men so that they should use one
another
in this way" (Confessions 3:8:15).
400 AD The Apostolic Constitutions "[Christians] abhor all unlawful
mixtures,
and that which is practiced by some contrary to nature, as wicked and
impious"
(Apostolic Constitutions 6:11).
Conclusion
While God loves eveyone and does not want to see anyone perish in hell,
homosexuality
is a lifestyle that is opposed to being a child of God, and therefore a
sin.
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